The too soft bed

Visiting family members this weekend, their brand new beautiful home in South Carolina, every room with new furniture and bedding. The guest rom has a brand new king size memory foam mattress that is totally opposite the Royal Pedic we sleep on at home. This bedding sleeps very hot and is very soft. I suppose it’s what you get used to, but the all cotton Royal Pedic flows air and this kind of bedding does not, the result is my wife and I turn constantly to stay cooler. Soft beds have very little support, and while that may seem luxurious to some, if used to a firm bed makes us a bit achy when you get up! How easily we get spoiled.....