i am currently looking for a bedroom set. i like the style of three manufactureres. durham (southhampton collection), lane (grand regency collection), and martha stewart (lilly pond collection). i have not seen any of these collections in person yet only on-line. it is really hard to find a retailer that carries all three. my question would be that since they are very similar in style would one be a better choice over the other. i am looking for decent quality at a fair price. does this even exist? oh and durable would be great too since I have a 7 year old boy - think spills and cars zooming over the furniture!?!? any help or sugestions would be appreciated. thanks for the help